now for running aps files on ur system (if ur using windows xp)ull need IIS - INTERNET INFORMATION SERVICES....
ull have to install IIS first which is available with the windows xp cd.
now if u have installed IIS on ur system
the and ur default drive is c:\
then goto
c:\Inetpub\iissamples\sdk\asp\database\
in this folder ull find all the asp files that r need which have the database coding
now in asp u can use 2 types of scripts
one is vb script and the other is java script
in the above mentioned folder ull find examples with both the scripts....
u dont need to go to any sites and if u need any specific codes in asp then u can visit this site
www.codeproject.com/asp/
this is where u can get any and every type of code u want .....have fun.........