Answers to your question one by one in detail :
1. Start with C++, being in 8th grade you will find things difficult to understand but dont loose hope keep reading the books things will become more n more clearer as you drill down the book.
But if you still find things difficult I will recommend go through few initial pages of C language, this is the first language that every programmer starts with.
2. PHP is a web programming language and SQL is related to Database. They both are completely different thing. To easy to understand I will say PHP is for front end and SQL is used for backend.
Programming in PHP results in display of web pages along with the buisness login.
SQL It is used at the backend to store user information and configuration parameters.
3. Dremaweaver is for Web pages development. For Java various IDE (Integerated Development Environment) are present Eclise. IntellijIdea and many more. I prefer Eclipse
4. Career aspect are very good in this filed. As everything is going online now a days ranging from paying bills, social networking etc. Some designation that you will achieve is PHP developer, Senior PHP developer, Software Engg, Senior Software engg, Developer, Senior Developer, Web Programmer. Some organizations consider your grades before calling for an interview. But most of then recruites on the basis of presence of mind, logical ability, aptitude and knowledge of technology.
5. How? is going to b tough for me to answer. But yes organizations demands experts , more expertise more money ;)... along with Programming language they also need domain knowledge.
For example : Operation Support systems, Buisness support syste, , CRM, BRM , ESS and many many more.
6. No its not at all confusing. Once you will be in the game, everything will be clear to u.
Debug : its a procedure to find out errors in your source code. Error can be of any type i.e Logical error to a spelling mistake.
Compile : This is a procedure through which you can convert normal source code to machine understandable intermidetary language.
Hope things are more clearer to you now.. :)
All the very best..!!!!